to all the doubting thomas's out there. this web site is one of the best. i joined this site in 2007, i also joined another site. between the two i sourced many women, chattered to them and behaved like a gentleman, as one should. i found my wife, travelled to china, met her, took it really slow. met family and some friends, did the long distance relationship ( suck's) and then married. my wife moved to my country and we visit china often. When ever i needed help, CLM was always there. no matter what i needed help with, no effort was spared.try as you may, you will never find a better site. And when John did not no the answer, one of the chinese girls that work with him did. thanks John and Co. (From a blog comment)

I came to this site in search of the woman of my dreams...and I found her.  I am in love with the most wonderful, most beautiful woman I have ever known.  I want to thank CLM for the opportunity to find her.  We are making plans to spend the rest of our lives together.  for the first time in my life...I feel true love and happiness.  Thank you CLM!

I just want to give you a complement on your quick response on my question about scammers. Thank you, it helped me a lot. I'm new at on-line meeting. And to give a bigger complement on your service; I was on a well known on-line service for months and never had any quality contacts. I’ve been on your site maybe two weeks and had many. I’m not sure how this will all work out but I am sure I will at least get some new friends.

Hello to John and the Team at CLM, I would like you to please delete me off CLM now. As through your your great web site I have met a most wonderful woman and will travel to met her in China in September and are really looking forward to seeing such a beautiful country and a lovely lady. I have been learning Mandarin and have a learning CD and some books as well. i have also just purchased a Global Translator called Franklin and it's made in China and it seems to be a very good tool. Im sure this visit for me will cement my relationship with this lady and i will do everything in my power to make it work and to be sucessful and to learn about your culture and country. I have been on this site since December 09 and I still have ladies trying to contact me and tell them sorry i have a girlfriend now and i do thank you for all your help. As my lady has gone off CLM now I would like to do the same for her. I will let you know how our meeting went and share some photos with you.

I am happy to be writing this email to the staff of CLM - I want to let you now that I have meet a wonderful person here, _____, otherwise known to the CLM community as _____. We have been chatting every morning and evening for about two weeks, and so far things are looking very good for us. She is an absolutely wonderful woman! I will keep you posted as our story and romance unfolds....when we make that final decision, and I am on my way to Beijing, I will write you one hell of a testimonial to publish! This is one quality site for anyone serious about finding true love in China, and I will support you in anyway possible. Take care and I will write soon.

Since I have joined your service last year I have been deeply impressed by your service and also by your actions against scammers. I have noticed that because of this threat of being exposed "many would be scammers" have left or removed their profiles from this site of their own accord. Excellent! This facility also weeds out less desirable characters and attracts better quality correspondents.
 
Your new articles and blogs on China culture are a big improvement. Your section on blogs by women members on their point of view is a great asset and help to those members who do not live and work in Modern China and who seriously are looking for a permanent wife. While there is much information available on China history and culture of the past available in books, previous to the cultural evolution, it does not reflect the opinions of modern day Chinese women and customary way of thinking. Unfortunately many dating sites and also marriage agencies ( for which one pays a heavy fee for each translated letter and a meeting and greeting and whopping big success fee) on the net, perpetuate the idea of the shy, timid, frightened Chinese woman twirling an umbrella and hiding behind the fan caricature.
 
Your instant translation device is truly a great help in direct communication and cuts out the human "translator" and marriage agencies who makes up stories about non-existent women. (I have had to cancel several trips now because of this practice in deceit). As a result of your vigilance, I have been able to make some real friends for a change and this has indirectly led to being able to trace a distant relative living in China.
 
I am extremely happy with your service and as a result I have every intention of coming to visit China as soon as I am able to next year (when it is not winter in China). The suggestion that you will extend your services into a sort of travel assistance group is also a very good idea. Keep up the good work.

I've located a wonderful woman here, on your site back in late March or Early April whom I've been corresponding with through regular Email. We are very happy so far and will be meeting in Shanghai in July! For now we wish to close out our memberships here on CLM. I cannot find how to accomplish this and wish you'd tell me. I appreciate your help very much. Thank you.

I have used alot of sites and just have to say that this site has to be the best one that i have ever been in. You let people know what's going on with all the scammers that you come across and there has been no other site that comes close to you. Keep up the good work that you do to try and cut out the scammer that are out there.

Wow what a great idea and a great service, i wish all dating sites were as good as this..... (sent by member in reply to a Scammer Notification).

CLM is the best dating site I have ever seen. I never met one real person from any other site I tried, but on CLM I talked to quite a handful of nice girls. It was very difficult to choose one, but here I am in Nantong.

NI HAO YOUR SITE ROCKS. LOVE LINKS IS BAD. I WILL TESTIFY YOU ARE GREAT. YOU SEND MANY BEAUTIFUL CHINESE LADIES. I CANNOT DECIDE. I MARRY ALL AND GO TO UTAH, USA GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILIES, FRED HESS ~{:-o)